Framing your position around needs rather than wants shifts hard conversations from 'you should do this because I want it' to 'this matters for our relationship because.' People resist wants but often respond to needs when those needs are articulated clearly.
Needs versus wants framing is a communication technique that helps people distinguish between what they deeply require for wellbeing and what they simply prefer, then express those distinctions clearly to others. Confusing the two often leads to unproductive arguments where both parties feel unheard.
AI can guide you through prompts that help you identify and articulate your actual needs before entering a hard conversation, reducing emotional reactivity and increasing the chance that the other person can genuinely respond. This technique draws from nonviolent communication principles and is especially effective in relationship conflicts, parenting discussions, and workplace negotiations.
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