The practice of narrating one's own parental journey rather than accepting others' definitions of what a parent should be or become.
Sor Juana wrote extensively in defense of her own life choices, refusing to let others define her worth or purpose. She claimed authority over her story in a context that demanded her silence. Parents similarly face constant narratives imposed by culture, family, and institutions about what parenthood should look like. This concept encourages parents to become authors of their own parental identity rather than characters in someone else's story. What does your parenthood mean to you, separate from external expectations? Claiming this authority is an act of intellectual and personal justice. It means recognizing that your experience of becoming a parent—with all its contradictions, losses, and unexpected joys—is valid knowledge worth defending. Sor Juana's legacy reminds us that authority over one's narrative is not arrogance but a necessary assertion of human dignity and the right to be understood on one's own terms.
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