Building relationships with patrons, allies, and communities who support your flourishing within and despite the constraints of your adopted role.
Sor Juana's intellectual life depended entirely on strategic alliances—with her abbess, with the Viceroy's family, with other learned figures who could provide protection, resources, and intellectual companionship. She understood that authenticity doesn't mean isolation or total independence; it means cultivating relationships with people and institutions that genuinely support your development. For those with adopted identities, the myth of the self-made individual is particularly dangerous. You need allies: people who see your potential, who will advocate for your resources and space, who understand the complexity of your situation. These allies may be within your organization, your family, your professional field, or your chosen community. Identifying and nurturing these relationships is not dependence; it's wisdom. Sor Juana's strategic cultivation of patronage and alliance allowed her to maintain her intellectual life within an institution that could have crushed it. She modeled how to work within systems while building the support structures necessary for flourishing. Interdependence acknowledges that adopted identities require community and advocacy.
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