The pattern of suppression and recovery of one's authentic expression within family and social systems, examining how parental roles can silence or restore a parent's truth-telling capacity.
Sor Juana famously renounced her writings under pressure from the Church and society, only to have her voice partially recovered and celebrated centuries later. This arc illuminates a critical parental experience: the temporary or prolonged silencing of one's perspective, desires, and truths within the demands of caregiving. Parents often lose their voice—their right to speak needs, set boundaries, or claim space—to institutional pressure or the overwhelming needs of children. Sor Juana's life teaches that losing voice need not be permanent, and that reclaiming it is both possible and necessary. For parents navigating the loss of pre-parental identity, this concept offers permission to grieve that silence while building pathways back to authentic expression. It validates the struggle to speak again as an act of justice toward oneself and ultimately toward one's children, who deserve a parent who is whole, not hollowed.
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