The Taoist concept of pu—returning to an original, unworked state—parallels the Stoic practice of pre-death through ego-dissolution.
Pu, the uncarved block, represents original simplicity before culture carves away potential and authenticity. Laozi teaches that returning to pu is the path of wisdom. Stoic memento mori practices a similar dissolution: imagining death to loosen the ego's grip on its constructed identity. Combining these traditions creates a powerful practice: gradually uncarvé yourself while alive. Release the roles, achievements, and judgments that culture has etched into your sense of self. This is not nihilism but liberation—returning to the simple, authentic being beneath social conditioning. By repeatedly contemplating mortality and consciously undoing ego's armor, you experience a kind of living death that paradoxically enlivens. The uncarved block at death has less to lose. This practice transforms memento mori from a source of existential dread into a map for dismantling unnecessary suffering while you're still breathing.
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