The practice of using what or whom we loved as a reflecting surface that reveals ourselves, becoming the essential subject of creative work.
For Mirabai, Krishna was not separate from her own deepest self; loving him was a way of loving what was truest in her. The beloved—whether a person, a place, a life-chapter we've lost—becomes a mirror: in loving it, we discover who we are. After loss, this mirror is still available to us, though transformed. The beloved becomes muse: the subject we return to again and again, not to recover them, but to understand ourselves more fully. This concept invites the creator to make the lost beloved (person, possibility, version of self) the deliberate center of creative work. Not as nostalgia or avoidance, but as deep investigation: What did loving this person teach me? What in me recognized what in them? What am I when I stand before this absence? Mirabai's entire body of work circles Krishna, always returning, always discovering something new. That circular, deepening return is the practice. Your grief-work becomes your muse-work; the two are inseparable.
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