Dating apps compress courtship into metrics and swipe decisions, replacing the slow revelation of personality with curated profiles and algorithmic matching, which changes not just how we meet but what we're looking for. The efficiency that feels liberating can also feel hollow—we gain access but sometimes lose the accident and surprise that used to matter to love.
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