Treating attachment work as a continuous spiritual discipline of showing up, noticing, and recommitting rather than expecting transformation through romance alone.
Mirabai's devotion was not a one-time surrender but a lifelong daily practice. She sang, danced, and prayed continuously, renewing her commitment moment by moment. This model challenges the cultural fantasy that choosing the right partner solves attachment wounds. Secure attachment is built through daily micro-practices: noticing your reactive patterns, communicating vulnerability, honoring boundaries, choosing kindness repeatedly. Each interaction is a choice to practice devotion to the relationship and to honest self-awareness. Mirabai teaches that transformation happens through embodied repetition, not through dramatic once-and-for-all decisions. In choosing partners, this means selecting people with whom you can sustain daily practices of authenticity and care. It means understanding that attachment security isn't about finding someone perfect, but about two imperfect people committed to continuous examination and recommitment. The practice itself is the path.
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