The dread of losing yourself inside someone else's needs, becoming so absorbed that your own voice goes silent, often comes from having your boundaries invaded or your autonomy erased early on. This fear can make intimacy feel like a slow drowning, even with someone kind, because closeness itself feels dangerous to your survival.
Peri can explain this concept, give practical examples, help you decide whether it applies to your situation, or recommend a journey if appropriate.
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