Reconciling Mirabai's unconventional choices with secure attachment—how true freedom and genuine commitment are not opposed.
Mirabai's life scandalized her society: she defied family, rejected her husband, and devoted herself entirely to Krishna. Yet she was profoundly attached—not anxiously, but consciously. This paradox challenges the false choice between freedom and commitment. Secure attachment isn't about staying with someone unsuitable to avoid abandonment fear; it's about choosing commitment while maintaining your own integrity. Mirabai's radical freedom came from knowing exactly what she valued and refusing compromise on it. For modern attachment, this means recognizing that a secure partner supports your becoming, not your shrinking. The question shifts from "Will they leave me?" to "Does this partnership allow me to grow?" Mirabai chose absolute commitment to something true, which required leaving what was false.
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