Sexual desire in long-term partnership doesn't need to burn with the fever of early love to matter; it can become something different—more knowing, more rooted in actual bodies and histories—but it requires attention and vulnerability to keep it alive. What kills it most reliably is the assumption that it should stay the same, or that it should require no tending.
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