Mirabai transformed her yearning for Krishna into ecstatic devotion; this teaches children that the intensity of grief, rather than being pathological, can fuel personal growth and meaning-making.
Mirabai's entire spiritual practice was fueled by longing—the ache of separation from Krishna intensified rather than diminished her devotion. She didn't pathologize this yearning; she consecrated it. For grieving children, this offers a crucial reframing: the intensity of missing someone is not a sign of weakness or dysfunction but proof of the profound love that existed. This longing can become fuel for growth. A child might channel grief into art, writing, service, or activism. A child might develop compassion for others who suffer because their own heart has been broken open. A child might create memorial projects that celebrate the lost person's values. Rather than treating the child's longing as something to minimize—"They're not eating, they're not sleeping, we should medicate"—this approach asks "What is this longing trying to teach? What wants to be expressed through this intensity?" Adults holding this concept meet children's grief as a source of wisdom and potential rather than primarily as a problem to solve.
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