Helping children understand, like Mirabai with her absent divine beloved, that profound love transcends physical presence and can evolve into new forms.
Mirabai loved Krishna, a being she never physically encountered, yet her love was the most real force in her life. For children grieving someone no longer present, this concept offers a bridge: the relationship doesn't end, it transforms. A child can still talk to their person, receive guidance through memory, feel their values operating within their own choices, and sense their presence in moments of beauty or difficulty. This isn't denial or magical thinking; it's recognizing that love's primary seat is the heart and imagination, not physical proximity. Over time, children can develop a new kind of relationship with their deceased loved one—less dependent on physical interaction, more dependent on internal connection. A child might ask themselves "What would grandpa say?" or "I'm wearing her favorite color today," or "That sunrise reminds me of his laughter." These are not signs of maladjustment but of a mature, evolving love that honors both the reality of loss and the persistence of connection.
Peri can explain this concept, give practical examples, help you decide whether it applies to your situation, or recommend a journey if appropriate.
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