The practice of allowing love (for yourself, others, or ideals) to illuminate what you actually value versus what you've been taught to value.
In Mirabai's bhakti, love for Krishna was inseparable from truth-telling: she could not lie about her desire for him, about her refusal to perform widow-like obedience, about her need for freedom. Her love was radical honesty. Applied to your grief, this concept suggests: what do you actually love? Not what you think you should love, but where does your attention, energy, and desire naturally flow? These loves reveal your authentic values. If you grieve an old identity, ask what you loved within it—perhaps not the identity itself, but what it allowed you to access (safety, belonging, purpose). Now ask: can I access these things authentically? Can I love myself and others while being honest about who I am? Mirabai's devotion was love expressed as uncompromising truth. Your truth-telling doesn't require the same radical renunciation, but it requires the same honesty.
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