The paradox that your true self cannot be lost, only forgotten—and that remembering requires releasing the identity you mourn.
Sahaja means 'natural' or 'innate'—the self that exists before conditioning, before roles, before the identity you're grieving. Mirabai taught that your essence cannot be destroyed by loss of status or identity because it was never dependent on external circumstance. The grief you carry for who you were suggests you accepted a false measure of self: your position, your role, your reputation. Sahaja invites a radical shift: what if the identity you lost was never truly you? What remains when stripped of that identity is not emptiness but your original nature. This isn't about spiritual bypassing—you must grieve fully—but about recognizing that beneath the mourning lies an unbreakable core. The practice is to notice moments when you feel most yourself, most free, most alive. These glimpses reveal sahaja, the self that persists unchanged.
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