Accepting grief as sahaja (natural, spontaneous, inherent to existence) rather than pathologizing or rushing toward resolution.
Sahaja—natural ease, spontaneous authenticity, what arises without effort—is a fundamental concept in bhakti and Tantric traditions. Applied to collective grief, sahaja invites us to recognize mourning as the natural human response to loss, not a condition requiring correction. Modern culture often pathologizes grief, expecting quick recovery and return to productivity. Mirabai's tradition knew that grief is as natural as breath, as necessary as rain. When a public figure dies or tragedy strikes, the sahaja response is sorrow. Rather than managing it away or spiritualizing it prematurely, sahaja practice says: let it arise naturally. Let people cry, create, gather, sit in silence. Create conditions for grief to be what it is without judgment or timeline pressure. This doesn't mean wallowing indefinitely, but recognizing that authentic mourning has its own rhythm and cannot be forced into predetermined stages. Sahaja suggests that the examined heart will know when it needs to move from acute grief into integration, and that this timing is different for everyone. Collective grief spaces that honor sahaja—allowing whatever arises to be present—create permission for authentic human response.
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