The bhakti practice of selfless service, revealing how affairs often arise from transactional expectations and how genuine trust requires releasing exchange-based love.
Seva—selfless service—is a cornerstone of bhakti practice. Mirabai served Krishna without expectation of return or recognition. Affairs and broken trust often occur when relationships become transactional: I am faithful, so you owe me fidelity; I love you, so you must love me; I serve you, so you must not betray me. These are contracts, not love. Genuine trust cannot be built on transaction because transaction assumes self-protective calculation on both sides. Seva asks a radical question: Can I love without the guarantee of reciprocal return? Not as doormat, but as free choice? This does not mean accepting betrayal, but it means releasing the fantasy that our goodness guarantees safety. When we practice seva—giving without counting cost—we both protect our own integrity and allow genuine trust to flourish, rooted not in transaction but in mutual commitment.
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