Widowhood is not a role one auditions for; it's a threshold you cross and then must learn to inhabit, carrying both the weight of who is gone and the strange, unwanted freedom of your own singular life. The particular cruelty of it is that you know exactly what you're missing, and no platitude closes that gap.
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