Patanjali's five mental afflictions (ignorance, ego, desire, aversion, fear) as root causes of insecure attachment patterns and relational suffering.
Patanjali identifies five kleshas—fundamental mental obscurations—that create suffering: avidya (ignorance), asmita (egoic identification), raga (craving), dvesha (aversion), and abhinivesha (fear of loss). These kleshas directly manifest as attachment insecurity through distorted self-perception and relational reactivity. Ignorance about our true nature creates anxious seeking of validation through others. Egoic identification produces defensive avoidance when intimacy threatens the false self. Craving and aversion generate the pursue-withdraw dynamics of insecure attachment. Fear of loss fuels both clinging behaviors and relationship sabotage. By recognizing attachment insecurity as klesha-driven, practitioners address attachment wounds at their psychological root rather than surface symptoms. Patanjali's systematic methodology for dissolving the kleshas through yoga practice offers a transformative pathway toward attachment security grounded in authentic self-knowledge rather than relational compensation.
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