Rabia's practice of ego-death reveals how the self-concept that discriminates must dissolve for true belonging to emerge.
Central to Rabia's spiritual practice was fana—the annihilation of the individual ego in union with the Divine. This is not psychological dissolution but the radical loosening of the rigid self-boundaries that underpin discrimination. When we discriminate, we are defending a particular version of self against perceived threats. Rabia's framework shows that this defended self is itself the problem. By systematically releasing the ego's need to control, categorize, and exclude, we create psychological and spiritual space for authentic belonging. This concept applies to discrimination as belonging denied by suggesting that excluded groups are often denied entry specifically because the dominant group's ego-boundaries require their exclusion to maintain coherence. Rabia's practice of ego-annihilation is thus not escapism but essential work: it dismantles the very psychological structure that creates discriminatory hierarchies. When ego dissolves, the capacity to deny belonging to another becomes literally unintelligible.
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