The practice of treating your child as if they are inherently beloved, reflecting the divine value of all creation as understood in Rabia's mystical tradition.
At the heart of Rabia's spirituality was the recognition that all creatures are beloved by the divine—cherished not for what they do but for what they are. This radical affirmation transformed how her students understood themselves and others. In attachment parenting, this translates to a fundamental stance toward your child: you treat them as beloved. Not because they earned it through achievement or good behavior, but because their existence is itself sacred. This stance infuses daily moments—the way you hold them, the tone of your voice, the choice to prioritize their emotional state, the decision to repair after rupture. A child who experiences themselves as beloved develops a resilient sense of self-worth that no external criticism can fundamentally shake. They learn to trust their own experience and to recognize their own worth. This is the deepest gift of secure attachment: the internalization of being cherished. Rabia's legacy reminds us that this is not arrogance or entitlement; it is the recognition of inherent human dignity.
Peri can explain this concept, give practical examples, help you decide whether it applies to your situation, or recommend a journey if appropriate.
Explore related journeys or tell Peri what you're working through.