Community as Extended Self

Rabia al-Adawiyya lived within community while maintaining inner solitude; she understood that human beings need both intimate connection and larger belonging. Grandparents raising grandchildren benefit profoundly from extending their family circle into community—faith communities, neighborhood networks, mentor relationships, and peer support groups. These connections serve multiple functions: they reduce isolation for the grandparent, provide additional positive role models for the grandchild, and create safety nets during crisis. The child learns that family identity includes people beyond the household, that love and care extend through concentric circles of community. Rabia's example demonstrates that spiritual devotion does not isolate but rather opens people to others. Grandparents who actively cultivate community relationships model for their grandchildren how humans are meant to belong to each other. This extended family becomes a resource of wisdom, practical help, celebration, and support.