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Differentiation of self

Differentiation means knowing where you end and others begin—holding your own values without needing everyone to agree, staying calm when others are reactive, and maintaining your sense of self even within tight family systems. It's not coldness; it's the clarity that lets you love people without losing yourself in them.

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