The idea that a newborn's earliest bonding experiences reflect an encounter with unconditional divine presence, mirroring Rabia's understanding of pure love.
Rabia al-Adawiyya taught that love of the Divine should be free from fear or hope of reward—a pure giving of the self. In infancy, this translates to the mother-child bond as humanity's first language of unconditional acceptance. When a caregiver offers presence without expectation of return, the infant experiences a proto-spiritual truth: that belonging is given, not earned. Rabia's legacy shows us that early bonding is not merely psychological attachment but the soul's first recognition of being loved for its own sake. This framework helps parents and midwives understand bonding as sacred work, where consistency and presence mirror divine grace. The newborn learns trust not through logic but through the felt experience of pure devotion from those who tend them.
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