Interbeing: Recognition of Mutual Dependence

Rabia's love extended to all existence because she recognized the fundamental interconnection between self and other, creature and Divine. Interbeing—a concept articulated by Thich Nhat Hanh but deeply resonant with Sufi wisdom—recognizes that autonomous individuals are an illusion; we exist only through infinite relationships and dependencies. In intentional community building, Interbeing means designing structures that make interdependence visible and valued rather than hidden. This might involve transparent resource-sharing, collective economic models, shared responsibility for group tasks, and rituals acknowledging how each member makes others' existence possible. Communities embracing Interbeing shift from viewing membership as optional affiliation to understanding it as mutual existence. When community members realize they literally depend on others for food, shelter, meaning, and love—and that others depend on them—commitment deepens naturally. Rabia's legacy suggests that communities grounded in Interbeing develop remarkable solidarity because members understand that harming the group means self-harm.