The practice of extending equal spiritual regard to all beings, transcending the human tendency to privilege those closest to us.
Rabia al-Adawiyya taught that authentic love of the Divine must be untainted by preference or attachment to worldly outcomes. Applied to favoritism, this concept asks: can we love and serve others without secretly privileging those who benefit us, belong to our tribe, or reflect our values? Love without preference means recognizing that favoritism costs everyone—it corrupts the giver's soul by fragmenting their devotion and injures the disfavored by denying them equal dignity. Rabia's radical equality in love suggests that the moment we favor one person over another, we've abandoned true spiritual devotion. This doesn't mean treating everyone identically, but rather holding no one outside the circle of our care. The cost of favoritism becomes visible when we examine what we lose: integrity, peace, and the transformative power of unconditional love.
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