The practice of loving others purely for their essence rather than utility, creating bonds that transcend biological kinship in diaspora communities.
Mahabbah, rooted in Rabia al-Adawiyya's devotional tradition, represents love stripped of expectation, obligation, or transactional benefit. In the context of found family within migration and diaspora, mahabbah becomes the spiritual foundation for chosen kinship—relationships formed not by blood but by mutual recognition of divine spark in one another. When migrants and diaspora communities create family bonds across cultural, linguistic, and national boundaries, mahabbah provides the philosophical framework that elevates these connections beyond convenience or survival strategy into sacred relationships. Rabia's radical love, originally directed toward the Divine, translates into a practice where found family members commit to each other's flourishing without requiring reciprocal obligation. This unconditional orientation helps diaspora communities weather displacement, grief, and alienation by anchoring relationships in devotion rather than dependency, allowing chosen family to become a genuine spiritual home.
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