How unconscious self-serving motives mask favoritism and prevent us from recognizing when we're betraying our values.
Rabia emphasized stripping away the veils that obscure our true nature and intentions. Favoritism thrives behind the veil of self-interest—we favor those who benefit us, flatter us, or reflect our identity, often without conscious awareness. This psychological blindness makes us believe our preferences are justified or natural rather than constructed. The veil operates through rationalization: we tell ourselves favored individuals are more deserving, more capable, or more aligned with our mission. Rabia's practice of radical honesty demands that we pierce this veil and witness our own motivations without mercy or excuse. The cost of remaining veiled is a life of unwitting hypocrisy; we contradict our stated values while believing ourselves virtuous. Lifting the veil requires contemplative practice, witness from others, and the humility to see how often self-interest drives our decisions about who matters most.
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