My girlfriend and I have never been able to find a rhythm sexually that works for both of us and we've tried everything we can think of, but these conversations always end with one of us feeling broken or inadequate and we don't know how to keep trying without hurting each other.
More people experience this than they realize.
Ongoing physical mismatch creates recurring cycles of effort, disappointment, and mutual blame despite genuine care.
“Where Are You with Sexual health — the physical dimension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.