My sister and I are both dealing with pregnancy loss — hers was recent, mine was two years ago — and our family keeps asking me to 'help her through it' because I've 'been there' but I'm realizing her grief is triggering all my unprocessed stuff and I don't know how to support her without drowning.
More people experience this than they realize.
Being cast as the experienced griever can reopen wounds while creating pressure to heal others before healing yourself.
“Where Are You with Reproductive health — general?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.