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Scenario

When divorced co-parents avoid discussing core values

My ex and I are trying to co-parent but we've never actually discussed what we each believe our kids should know about sex, money, religion, or what happened to our marriage. We just trade weekends and assume we're on the same page until one of us gets blindsided by what the other said, and then we fight about logistics instead of talking about the deeper disagreement.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people responsible for raising the same children are operating from unexamined and potentially incompatible worldviews, using practical conflicts to avoid deeper philosophical reckonings.

Your guide for this
Hypatia
Hypatia works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Single Parenting?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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