My partner and I are both dealing with aging parents and we've discovered we have completely opposite instincts about family obligation, independence, and what we owe the people who raised us. Every conversation about our parents becomes a proxy war about values we've never actually discussed.
More people experience this than they realize.
A couple is finding that caregiving decisions reveal fundamental disagreements about duty, autonomy, and intergenerational responsibility that they never knew existed between them.
“Where Are You with Disability & Accessibility?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.