My partner and I are both bisexual but we're getting different reactions from our families about our relationship - mine sees it as a 'phase' that's ending since I'm with them, while theirs is asking invasive questions about our sexual history and whether we'll 'stay faithful.' We're struggling with how much to educate, how much to set boundaries, and whether we should present a united front when our own relationships to our bisexuality are different.
More people experience this than they realize.
Shared identity can create unexpected friction when others' misconceptions affect both partners differently.
“Where Are You with Bisexual and pansexual identity?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.