Periagoge
Scenario

When partners have incompatible healing and coping styles

My partner and I are both trying to heal from trauma but we have completely different approaches - they need space and processing time while I need connection and reassurance. We're both doing the work individually but our healing processes keep triggering each other and we don't know how to support each other without abandoning what we each need.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people's individual growth processes are creating friction that neither person can resolve alone.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Diaspora identity — living between worlds?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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