My partner and I are dealing with the aftermath of their affair and we both want to repair our relationship, but I need them to understand the real impact of what they did and they keep saying I need to 'let it go' and focus on moving forward. We're stuck between my need for acknowledgment and their desire for a clean slate.
More people experience this than they realize.
The desire to heal together collides with fundamentally different understandings of what justice and repair require.
“Where Are You with Justice and forgiveness — the tension?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.