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Scenario

When couples navigate visible and invisible chronic illness together

My partner and I both have chronic conditions but mine is visible and theirs isn't, and we're constantly navigating different assumptions people make about us as a couple. When we're out together, strangers offer me sympathy while completely ignoring what my partner deals with, and we've never figured out how to handle these moments in a way that feels right for both of us.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Partners with different types of chronic conditions are struggling to present a united front when the world treats their experiences as fundamentally unequal.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Chronic illness and identity?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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