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Scenario

When couples disagree on the path forward after infidelity

My romantic partner and I are in couples therapy because they had an emotional affair, and we keep getting stuck on whether healing means me setting strict boundaries or us working together to understand what was missing in our relationship.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Intimate relationships strain when partners need different approaches to rebuilding trust and safety after betrayal.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Punitive vs. restorative approaches to harm?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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