My spouse and I are both involved in our kid's school community, but we have very different comfort levels with how much we should push back when we see problems with how the school handles discipline and equity issues. They think I'm being too confrontational and I think they're being too passive, and it's creating tension both at home and in our relationship with other parents.
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