I'm part of a men's group that processes accountability but one member keeps sharing the same story about hurting his ex without ever changing his behavior and I don't know if calling him out will just shut him down.
More people experience this than they realize.
The ritual of confession can become a substitute for change when sharing pain becomes more comfortable than doing the work to stop causing it.
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