Periagoge
Scenario

When love feels conditional on becoming someone else

My partner says they love me for who I am but they keep suggesting ways I could improve myself and I don't know if they're helping or changing me.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're questioning whether acceptance that comes with expectations for change is actually acceptance at all.

Your guide for this
Juana
Juana works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Existentialist authenticity vs. bad faith?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.