My ex and I are trying to coordinate our different approaches to presence with our son during transitions between houses, and it's becoming clear that we have completely different ideas about what he needs from us. Every handoff feels like a judgment of the other person's parenting style.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two parents are discovering that their separate definitions of good presence create instability for their child.
“Where Are You with Time and parenting — what it means to be there?”
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