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When couples discover they both watch pornography but never discussed boundaries

My partner and I discovered we've both been watching porn but never talked about it, and now that it's out in the open we don't know how to navigate what we each want or need from it or from each other. We're trying to figure out if this is something we do separately or together or how to even have this conversation without judgment.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two people are learning to navigate sexual autonomy and intimacy when private behaviors become shared knowledge.

Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Pornography in the digital age?”

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