My partner and I never talk about what we actually want from whatever time we have left and we keep making big life decisions separately and then trying to convince the other person that our timeline is the right one. We're both afraid of wasting time but we can't agree on what counts as waste.
More people experience this than they realize.
Two people are paralyzed by the awareness that time is finite but cannot align on what makes time meaningful.
“Where Are You with Time and mortality — death as clarifying force?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.