My spouse and I lost a pregnancy two years ago and we handled it completely differently—I wanted to try again immediately and they needed space—and we've never really talked about whether we made the right choices for each other during that time.
More people experience this than they realize.
Different ways of processing loss created a secondary loss of trust in how they care for each other.
“Where Are You with Regret and the past?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.