My spouse gets into flow states that last hours and I respect that but our toddler needs attention and I end up handling everything domestic while feeling resentful that their deep work gets protected while mine gets interrupted constantly.
More people experience this than they realize.
When one person's focus requires another's fragmentation, love becomes a zero-sum game.
“Where Are You with Deep work and focused time?”
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.