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When couples disagree about structured time versus free play for children

My wife and I have this running argument about how much 'free play' time our 7-year-old needs versus structured activities, and we keep undermining each other—I'll say yes to more screen time when she's at work, she'll add another lesson when I think our kid needs to just be bored for once. We both want what's best but we're working against each other.

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More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

Two parents are caught between competing philosophies of childhood development, each acting from love but creating inconsistency that serves no one.

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