Ever since my best friend died in that accident six months ago, my husband and I have been having this weird unspoken competition about who loved her more, who's grieving 'correctly,' and who gets to carry her memory forward — and it's making me feel like I'm losing both of them.
More people experience this than they realize.
Loss has created a scarcity mindset around love and remembrance, turning partnership into rivalry over who deserves to be the primary mourner.
“Where Are You with The gift of mortality — what loss teaches about being alive?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.