I cheated on my partner six months ago, told them, and we're trying to work through it, but I keep wanting them to be angrier with me because their calm feels worse than rage would and I don't know if that's about my guilt or about something they're not saying.
More people experience this than they realize.
Sometimes the absence of expected anger signals either profound grace or suppressed fury, and not knowing which creates its own form of relational limbo.
“Where Are You with Infidelity — all perspectives?”
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