I've been realizing that insisting my love language is acts of service might actually be my way of avoiding intimacy — it's easier to have someone do my laundry than to let them see me when I'm struggling. My roommate keeps trying to check in emotionally and I keep deflecting to practical help.
More people experience this than they realize.
What looks like a genuine preference may be a sophisticated way of keeping others at a safe distance.
“Where Are You with The love languages — examined critically?”
Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.
If this sounds familiar, the Library can help you find the bigger picture.