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Scenario

When family members keep reinjuring each other while trying to forgive past patterns

My adult daughter and I are trying to repair our relationship after years of me being critical and controlling, but every time we make progress, one of us says or does something that pulls us back into old patterns. We both want this to work, but forgiveness feels impossible when we keep reinjuring each other.

More people experience this than they realize.

What we've seen

You're both discovering that forgiveness requires not just releasing old wounds but actively creating new ways of being together.

Your guide for this
Mira
Mira works with people navigating exactly this kind of situation.
Ideas that help explain it
Worth thinking about

“Where Are You with Forgiveness in Love — What It Takes?”

Peri

Peri can explain why this happens, help you decide if this is the right situation for you, and point toward the right journey or coach.

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